Most of us teenagers face a lot of pressure to look good nowadays,right?But really,how much do we actually care about what people have to say about us?Does it really,really matter a 100% to get the society's approval on how we dress?How we wear our makeup,style our hair or for the guys,wear our jeans?[sorry about the guys part,i don't really know,hehe]
As our generation gets techier by the minute,so does the fashion.It changes every season,when its time to get a whole new wardrobe,haircut and colour and etc.If you follow all these fashion week stuff,do you actually believe that you must,i repeat MUST,change your look all the time?The answer : NO.Now i'm not saying its not important to look good,of course it is,cause' that's the very first and lasting impression that you leave on people whom you have never met.A teacher once told me,its the first impression that lasts,so be good and just be yourself.So basically,what i'm trying to say is,beauty,no matter how you define it,is in the eye of the beholder.Someone may say that your outfit looks bad,your fat,your ugly,your too short or too tall and so on,but deep down inside...do you know why they say that?Its because you may have something else that they don't,and amidst all the insult and negative comments,they really just wanna have what you do that attracts others to befriend you.
So being a girl especially,of course i freak at times.You know,maybe my clothes don't match,i have a huge zit on my forehead or whatever that makes us think that we'll look less pretty.But really...WE ARE JUST HUMANS..we tend to feel that we look good on other days,and some days we look like crap just because a zit just popped on our nose during photo sessions.In reality,you are your own judge.Your the one who makes yourself think that everyone else is saying your ugly or not pretty enough..ring a bell?A friend will tell you the truth,and when they do,some of us may take it as an insult,when all they meant was to help us out.Don't shoot them down for saying it,because if your the one who asked,then you should be ready for what they have to say.I for one believe that we are all beautiful creatures,created by God with our own unique abilities.
i am me.i'm beautiful the way i am no matter what you say...its me that matters.
Now,doesn't that feel good?To actually love yourself and your body,to learn how to accept all your flaws and not be brought down because of it...cause' honey,really,the world is a cruel place to live in...Nobody's perfect,and everyone's just trying to live their own life.We all want to be the best that we can,right.So i ask all of you,do you love yourself?Your self-esteem should never be kicked down by your pessimistic thoughts,because truly,only you know yourself.It may be hard for some of us,but shouldn't we start to accept that what we love is all that matters?Stop trying to be what your not if it makes you uncomfortable,and learn to be comfortable in your own skin.
If we really don't like what we see in the mirror,and start being hateful to our bodies...get HELP.You know you can always turn to your friends.They are your life support.Not only your friends,but also your family.Talk to someone,share your feelings.There's no good in bottling it all up.Your family and friends won't be happy if they see you feeling blue.That's why their there,to support and help you get through that difficult face...they love you,so don't push them away if their trying to help.
that's what friends are for.WE LOVE EACH OTHER. :D
Your whole outfit may not be perfect,but if that's your style,then just stick to it.People can't condemn you for wearing what you want right?So i urge all the readers,to believe in yourself more and boost your self-esteem.Nobody's self-esteem is worthy of being crushed or measured by the riches they have,or the clothes they own.We are what we are,imperfect yet beautiful nonetheless.So girls and guys,be YOU and show a little bit of love to yourself.Stop dictating yourself or procrastinating about what people will say,your beautiful the way you are!
Go out and show the world that nothing can stop you from being the true you. :)
Nice post! Or should i say, beautiful post! I must say, most of it are quite true, and it is essential for someone to love theirselves before others can start to love 'em.
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